Concerned about your will being one with the will of God for you? Ask the Lord to tell you what His will is for you. When you know what God's will is--the Spirit is whispering the way to go, what to say or leave unsaid--ask for the grace to carry it out in the daily events of your life.
If you are seeking God's will concerning your vocation in life--the married state, the single vocation or religious life--ask for clarity. Once you know to which vocation in life you are being called--you have an inkling, a sense, a hunch--follow through. Contact a vocation director/s; browse web sites of religious communities. Discuss your desires with a vocation director and ask how to proceed.
Love God's will above all! Seek God's will above all! Do whatever needs to be done to carry out the will of God cheerfully, courageously. God will not fail you, even in the challenges of daily life in whichever vocation God has placed you.
